Every Child Matters
I don’t remember how I wound up on this website, but a few weeks ago I stumbled across a website for Every Child Matters. Every Child Matters is a bi-partisan group trying to get political reform for...
View ArticleHelp for Foster Children on Halloween
Who doesn’t like to get chocolate in their treat bag while out trick-or-treating? The Wendy’s food chain is helping foster children this Halloween, while giving kids a chocolaty treat. You can...
View ArticleDave Pelzer
I cannot believe in the amount of time I have been blogging about foster care and adoption that I have not written about Dave Pelzer. If his name is not familiar to you, then his books probably are....
View ArticleThe Scarf Project
This blog is not to “toot my own horn,” but instead to get you thinking about other ways that you can help children. I have talked about my friend, Bonnie, in other blogs. She is a former foster...
View ArticleIntroducing Our Photo Listing Widget
I’ve had the pleasure of working with the Adoption.com Photo Listing for 6 years. When others ask what I do, most have never heard of an adoption photo listing. I explain there are thousands of...
View ArticleBlack
Orange Shoe Guy (OSG) and I wrote a book. It is a children’s book and (though I am biased) I have to admit, it is good. OSG is in the unique position of being an African-American child in a Caucasian...
View ArticleWhen I Was Her Age
By the time I was ten I was doing my own laundry, caring for an aged and ill grandmother who lived with us, and I did my homework without assistance or even prompting. She’s not going to be that way....
View ArticleRaising a Traumatized Child
Eighteen years ago, when I went to my first adoption seminar, so many things came to mind: meeting “my” child for the first time, holding him or her in my arms, providing a safe home, giving all the...
View ArticleNo More Consequences (aka THINKING) – Part 1
I have an internal dilemma: Is it that I am a lazy mom or is it that I am systematic and a believer in systems? It’s likely a bit of both. Whatever the root cause, I am struggling to change...
View ArticleHappy Adoption Day!
On November 17, we celebrated National Adoption Day. In our home, it’s the day in which we celebrate the adoption of all 5 of our children. Some years it’s a big party, this year, it was a little...
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